So Valentine’s Day is closing quickly and you will no doubt be thinking of ways in which you can spice things up a little, or turn that person you admire into that person on your arm. Well we have a few pointers for you here, and none of them, you’ll be pleased to hear has anything to do with spending any money!

So you manage to ask them out on a date, what do you do? The following rules apply if you’re male or female so pay attention now!

• Be interested in them, and listen to what they have to say. Hey, and even if you don’t fancy them by the end of the date you might make a friend (and you never know who they might introduce you to!)
• Be tastefully sexy. Don’t overdo the aftershave or perfume, and certainly don’t show off too much of your body. The human mind likes to do a little work when it comes to the art of erotica, and you’ll be surprised about how sexy you can come across when you don’t try too hard.
• Be yourself. Everyone fears that their potential date won’t like them, so they end up trying to be what they think their date wants. This is wrong (unless you just want a quick fling of course). If you really like the person, and no doubt you do if you’ve focused on them for Valentine’s Day, then you really should allow them to see who you really are; that way if they don’t like who you are, you can get over it and stop wasting time.

All these things will inevitably make your date go a little easier, and you’ll really be able to make a lasting impression. More to come tomorrow!