Well isn’t this the one million dollar question? And all you women reading this blog will no doubt be screaming at the top of your voices “SEX! SEX! SEX!” Well, I’m not going to sit here on some righteous throne and pretend that men want stimulating, intellectual engagement, because at the end of the day, and particularly in the beginning of a relationship, they don’t! And you are right, they do want sex, above most other things.